After years of searching for evidence of me out in the world and in everyone else I met, it occurred to me that maybe I’d been looking in the wrong place.
At that critical moment, life sent me a teacher. He suggested I consider one simple fact. If I was the one doing the searching, if it was me in those relationships, and me living those circumstances, then maybe I was the common denominator. Maybe I should search for me within me.
It felt too simple, so I dismissed it. I wanted BIG TIME ENLIGHTENMENT.
The truth, though? I didn’t have the maturity then to grasp what he offered.
Then he died. But he planted a seed in me.
I set off on my next quest. Years of therapy. Workshops. Books. I studied Astrology, the Enneagram, and Human Design. Incredibly valuable, they all showed me how to frame my assets and liabilities to generate self-awareness.
But I was still searching, and I was still the one doing it. If I’m the common denominator, how do I find me?
The seed started to sprout.
How do I discover what I am? The answer that worked for me is that I must become it.
“Becoming” me means choosing me. Choosing the experience I’m having now. Over and over.
I can tell you that “choosing me” is not a path or even a process. It’s an accumulation of guided experiences that gradually become where you’d rather be.
If you’re interested, I can help.
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